I came across an article in a Thai Magazine about computer, if you think it’d be a male or female, which I think it’s a bit funny. I’ve never given much thought about mine, it’s a black Dell that I bought over 6 years ago and it’s still working fine but I did recently upgrade my monitor to a 19 inch flat panel LCD which I guess one might say it’s now a female. [Updated 10/4/2008] This old one died, I recently made a new purchase, another Dell with a 22 inch screen, instead of looking like a female as my previous one, now it’s looking a bit more masculine. This is what the article in Koosang Koosom written in Thai Language said,
A group of all male computer scientists announced that computers should also be referred to as being female. Their strange 5 reasons are: no one but the creator understands their internal logic; the native language they use to communicate with other computers is incomprehensible to everyone else; the message of ‘Bad command or file name’ is as informative as, ‘If you don’t know why I’m mad at you, then I’m certainly not going to tell you’; even your smallest mistakes are stored in long-term memory for later retrieval (so true); as soon as you make a commitment to one, you’d find yourself spending half your paycheck on accessorizing it (high maintenance).
However, another group of all female computer scientists thought that computers should be referred to as if they were male. Their strange 5 reasons are: they have a lot of data, but are still clueless; they are supposed to help you solve problems, but half the time they are the problem (totally agree with this one); as soon as you commit to one you realize that, if you had waited a little longer, you could have obtained a better model; in order to get their attention, you have to turn them on; big power surges knock them out for the rest of the night (same as the English version here).
After reading this, I couldn’t help but to laugh, silly things that people would come up with. Then I thought to myself, what about my blog? What do people think of it, male or female?
I started writing blog during the time that my mom was diagnosed with cancer and needed to keep my mind focused. I spent many hours sitting with her while she rested, therefore had plenty of time to read Thai magazines and found many interesting articles that I thought others might be interested in reading, and that’s when it all started. My mom passed away in early January of this year, and here I am, still translating and still spending many of my sleepless nights writing; it helps me deal with my loss and still be focused.
My oldest sister and I came up with the name, Nye Noona; Nye pronounced ‘nine’ means mister or boss in Lao or Thai, and Noona means mouse, so it’s Mr. Mousey, a bit old fashion and sounds like a mouse in a rice paddy field, but since I’m a blogger, let’s think of it as a computer mouse. My intention was to write like a guy, I thought it would be so cool; then one of my friends asked me to do story on fashion. I thought to myself, that shouldn’t be so bad and the traffic was incredible (for me anyway, for some might think it’s that all?); then I thought to myself, may be they’ll think I’m a gay guy or something. Then One day, Darly of Laoplanet.net was kind enough to do a little write up to introduce my blog to the Lao community and it read,
There is a new blogger in town and her name is Nye. Nye is a Lao lady with an appetite for words. She is an avid writer about matters of the daily life, Laos (of course) health issues, food and many translated articles from Thai media.
Nye Noona is a blog that you should not miss when you do your daily round of Lao internet sites. Add Nye’s blog to the list, if you like thoughts that might make you itch!
That was so kind of her, but it did hurt me a bit, the ‘Lao Lady’ part totally destroyed my image as a male blogger. The thought of me continuing to write like a guy went down the drain, but if anyone missed this write up, then they might still think I’m a gay guy. Some people think that my writing is a bit weird, especially one of my co-workers; she once asked me ‘Where did it all come from?’ ‘What?’ I asked. I didn’t think it was very weird, but I didn’t want you all to think that my blog represents who I am. I’m very normal and average, but I do have to admit that it’s becoming a part of me now, and my voice might at times comes through my writing. Okay, the more I’m trying to explain, the more I think I might have confused you even more.
I truly think that a blog should have a gender; sometimes I can tell by entering someone’s blog, for many obvious reasons, but other times, I’m clueless. I think Nye Noona is more of a female now, but I like to think of her as a tomboy.






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May 5, 2007 at 10:52 pm
K
Hi Nye, such an interesting post. I have seen a lot of blogs that doesn’t tell much if the author is a guy or a lady. It’s how bizarre a blog really is. A friend of mine who actually reads my blog said that I’m a diff person from the way I write. Sometimes the anonymity of an individual makes you wonder, what is she/he looks like? In many cases, anonymity is justified due to personal reasons. But I find it so frustrating to read a blog without knowing who you are specially if you are a brilliant writer.
I mean, if you have no idea who a person is, you don’t know for sure what to make or say on them. Once you have a loyal ones who come to know the blogger, I think the author should describe who she/he is.
BTW, sorry to hear about your mom’s passing.
May 6, 2007 at 12:27 am
Nye
Hi K, thanks for commenting, when people asked me if I could write, I’d tell them I don’t know, because I really don’t, I get very little feed back from my readers. I think I didn’t tell a lot about myself because I have no intention of writing about my life, but at times I find myself writing about my many crazy sisters, I have 7 sisters and no brother, I’m almost the baby of the family, and being able to write about my mom helps with the hurting, but I don’t know if it will ever go away, and Mother’s Day is next Sunday.
I took it for granted that many of my readers knew me; most don’t know what I look like, but knew enough information about me that they feel comfortable with my writing, most just read and not commenting a lot, so I really don’t know if they like what they read. I like ghost story so I seem to be writing a lot about it lately. The other good portion of my readers are the web crawlers, mainly searching for information on specific topics, and I don’t think they care what I look like, I’m just happy that they got what they came in for. I think blogging is acceptable in every profession now, and nothing to be ashamed of, but strangely I didn’t want my real name to be associated with my Pen name in anyway, might be because of my profession, and I don’t feel comfortable showing my picture.
Not a whole lot I’m afraid, maybe someday I’d feel more comfortable telling people about myself, but overall I’m very average in everything, very friendly as you can see, likes to make people smile and I would go out of my way at times (but sadly I find that most don’t do it for me). My goal is to be able to share stories about Laos, Thailand especially our unique culture, and I’ve recently promised our local monk that I’ll write about Buddhism also.
I like your writing style, very bold and to the point, which is something that I couldn’t do, I’m not strong enough emotionally to be able to write like you (not that I’m not capable). I think it’s actually a great way to relieve stress and anxiety.
May 13, 2007 at 6:57 pm
Darly
Hi Nye,
I think at first glance many visitors will think you’re a guy. This might sound funny but as much as I post at LP and with making an “about” page at Laomusic.nu, many Laotian “male” webmasters think that I am a male. Even the webmaster of Buclao and now Lao Roots Magazine thought I was a guy. That was after I was a member of his site more than a year and he thought I was a man after all the postings, lol. I must have sounded like a man.
I still get mails for Laomusic.nu and Laoplanet.net with reference to me as a male with the name as Darly.
This is Nye Noona with a voice and I like the way you like. Being straight up is the way to go.
May 13, 2007 at 9:35 pm
Nye
Hi Darly, I knew you’re a lady, I saw your photos, and how can anyone miss that…lol. I guess we’re in such a hurry when reading blogs that we missed little details. This is not my first time mentioning that I’m a female on my blog, the post on Eulogy For My Mom mentioned of 8 daughters, but I think most readers might have missed that.
I never feel the need to explain myself before because I feel that my voice was very neutral until recently. When I translate, my voice changes according to different authors’ voices, whether it’s a male, female, or others. Those from Laoplanet knew me, so there’s no question there, but I feel that many readers that don’t know me must be wondering. I feel a bit guilty, owe it to my readers just like K’s comment, especially if I made a comment at their blog, I often don’t leave a link back, but sometimes I do, and when they check back on my blog, I feel funny because some would come back several times and not saying anything. All bloggers that I came across are very nice in replying or making comments, and when they came to visit my blog and not saying hello, what came to mind was (1) my writing must be awful or (2) my writing and story must be weird.
I hope that most of my readers don’t think my writing is awful, and if you do pick (2), then I would say it’s not weird, it’s just a cultural gap between the east and west; if you are Laotian or Thai and thinking that it’s weird, then it’s a generation gap which I hope to close both gaps through my writing. I’m not here to make money, but just enjoying writing, your payment of comment is more than enough for me. Yes, even if you hate it, I think I’m strong enough emotionally to hear it, if not then I reserve my right to delete any inappropriate comment, but comments are very important to me, to all bloggers.
July 23, 2007 at 1:24 pm
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April 8, 2009 at 8:39 pm
Aodto
Hello Nye Noona,
Nice to read your blogs, it is very interesting and I’m so sorry about your mother. My name is Sounay and I’m Laotian….so are u Laotian 100% or mixed? I love to write a blog like you and right now I’m building a website to right my own articles but it is not done yet.
BTW, its nice to meet you here and hope to meet you sometimes der!!!
bye bye (Sabaidee)
!!!!!
April 9, 2009 at 1:01 am
Ginger
Hi Aodto, thanks, my mom is in a better place now.
Thanks for your visit and comment, I’m Lao, part Thai and Chinese. This blog has evolved some since I started, more photos now, and I’m happy to hear that you enjoy reading it. It’d be interesting to read blog from where you’re, and please do share your URL when you have it ready.
Sabaidee Pee Mai, Happy Lao New Year to you, and Be safe.
October 22, 2009 at 6:26 am
eerenoon
What about mine? A male or a female? 555….
October 22, 2009 at 1:50 pm
Nye
eerenoon, I kind of feel that your blog looks more like a male, am I correct? But your name sounds like a female, I’m kind of confused here, lol.
October 22, 2009 at 1:55 pm
Sounay Phothisane
Noona, Don’t forget to visit this site na http://chandaly.com
see ya ^^!
October 22, 2009 at 2:08 pm
Nye
Thanks sounay, I’ll check out later, but I’m sure I won’t be the only one.
January 25, 2011 at 6:50 pm
Yidan
Haha, that’s an interesting take! I never thought about it that way. Love the reasons those scientists came up with! > U <
January 25, 2011 at 6:52 pm
Yidan
I actually thought you were female from your writing…:P
January 25, 2011 at 11:11 pm
Nye
Hi Yidan, thanks for your visit and comments. I used to translate a lot when I wrote this post, and take on the tone of the third person. I haven’t done that in a while. I’m glad I sound like a female.
June 12, 2011 at 4:45 am
lifereconnected
Really interesting post and the conversation that follows. Congrats on being freshly pressed (where I found your blog), this is a really interesting blog. I’ll be back
June 12, 2011 at 9:20 am
Nye
Thanks liferconnected, the traffic has been great thus far. For you to trail off this far I guess it’s hard to tell if my blog is a male or female.
June 28, 2011 at 12:16 pm
....RaeDi
I thought male, I love your gardens, I am sorry for your lost of your Mother, I like your blog, I came from a comment on another blog that someone wrote about your garden and have visited for a while now, need to go, later….RaeDi
June 29, 2011 at 6:59 am
Nye
Thanks RaeDi, my mom is in a better place and we’ll get to visit her monument this weekend. I’m looking forward to that since it’s so far away and we don’t go as often. Gardening was her passion and it must be something that I picked up from her.